The Skeeter Daddle Diaries

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Down at the Little Church in the Ravine they brought in a new minister, Rev. Baxter. He’s replaced Pastor Paul’s Bible thumping, fire and brimstone, Hell and damnation sermons with ‘prosperity preaching’. Forget worrying about the eternal furnace of Hell as punishment, imagine the temporal rewards of riches Right Now. “The Lord,” Rev. Baxter intones in unctuous, perfectly enunciated promises, “will reward you with fiscal manifestations for your belief in His good works. Ask,” he tells the flock, “and you will receive.”

This is good news in the pews. The South End, never really as worried about punishment after death as the one they live daily, was more than ready to receive money, not manna, from Heaven. That bunk about the meek inheriting the earth stuff Pastor Paul occasionally mentioned paled in comparison to the high wattage of an eternity of blistering boiling retribution. Brother Baxter promised the earth and heaven too and forget about being meek and modest. Ask for the moon. Ask for more! You deserved it and when you got it, that was proof of your worth, that was the Keys to the Kingdom, hallelujah!!

“Have faith in the generosity of the Lord,” Rev. Baxter admonished with his wide gold tooth smile and his expensive watch sparkling occasionally beneath the sleeve of his purple robes, proof itself of the truth in his words. “He will bless you until the end of your days. He will make you rich. There is no shame in wealth, only evidence of your devotion and the Lord’s beneficence.”

Well, he is the minister, the congregation reminded skeptics who quoted that chestnut about a rich man squeezing through the eye of a needle trying to get into Heaven or whatever the hell it said, better to be poor and miserable, old time mumbo jumbo, suffer and ye shall receive. Maybe it was time to try Rev. Baxter’s version, they argued. Try the caviar of optimism instead of the gruel of pessimism and self- denial.

Christmas, it looks like, has come to the South End to stay and God, if Brother B. is correct, is going to be a whole lot better than Santa. Folks at the Chapel are making their lists and checking it twice. Amen to that.

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I’m one of those people who pick up hitchhikers. I give spare change to street beggars too. I guess because some part of me feels like there but for the grace of God, go me. Maybe you’ve never had to hitchhike, but I have … and I hated it. Broke or broke down or both — it’s not much fun, but it does teach you humility and an appreciation for the kindness of strangers and gives you huge motivation to buy a used car.

The hombre I picked up this morning was a lean long haired young guy, maybe 30, looked a little worn out already. He asked how I was doing, I said fine, how you doing?

“Okay now, I guess,” he answered. “Just got out of the hospital.”

Course I had to ask what he was there for. “Well, I’m not real sure,” he replied. I’m thinking some unknown undiagnosible malady, but no, he’d been up river partying, drinking, doing some recreational drugs (although he didn’t say so) and when he woke up, he was in a hospital bed, no recollection how he got there, no memory of most of the night before. “How long were you in there?” I asked. He shrugged, didn’t know. Didn’t ask either, apparently. Helluva party.

“Yeah,” he mused, “got another one this weekend up in Darrington, some festival my pal told me was going to be awesome. Awesome,” he repeated, already imagining it. I read about guyz like this everyday, heroin addicts who are brought back from an overdose, but shoot up same day. Alarm bells don’t, apparently, go off for them. Or the line between life and death is just a tightrope they think they can walk, no net necessary.

In town I dropped him off at the curb in front of Mission Motors, the Christian used car lot. “Gonna be a gas,” he intoned, already halfway to Darrington in his mind. A better man than me might have lectured him. A better man might have offered adult counsel.

“Party on, dude,” I said, throwing the truck into gear. He won’t be hitchhiking much longer, I figure. Slow learn, fast burn.

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I’m about to leave fogbound Madison, Wisconsin this morning after a week of adult daycare for my folks. Mom just went into the medium care apartments but she didn’t go quietly. Dad is still up at their house where they’d lived for 5 years and you can bet she wanted to go back up there too. The Old Man finally relented, even though the assisted living staff said no way could he handle her needs, but at the last minute he decided they were right, at 93 he was no serious caregiver. Believe me, my mother was devastated.

Still, she wasn’t going to give up. She wanted to go ‘home.’ Home, I said, was where you are, make the best of it. Three meals a day, light housekeeping, nurse a buzzer away, laundry once a week, friendly and professional staff — really the best that money can buy, a blessing for the rest of the family. Hell on earth for her.

I got here a week ago. Her apartment had furniture my brother and his wife hauled down, kitchen table, chairs, TV, couple of small end tables, lamps. They wanted to hang some paintings and prints but Ma growled No Way and so the apartment had all the warmth of a Keokuk Motel 6 in the dead of winter. She wasn’t, she told us repeatedly, staying long, she was going home.

Where there’s a will there’s a way is an old aphorism that’s plenty oversold to eager optimists, okay with me, but there comes a time to accept your losses and move on, make the best of a bad situation you maybe didn’t choose. So … my job was to cheerful up the place. I bought a few paintings and when I rolled in with them under both arms, she asked what I had. Presents, I said, early Christmas, late birthday. Little by little, day by day, we hung art, placed silk flowers, brought in vases and baskets. Takes a heap of living, though, as the poem notes, to make a place a home, nothing she was going to do, that’s for sure.

She knew, with every nail in the drywall, every framed painting hung, every vase placed, she knew she wasn’t going home. I’ll look back months or maybe years from now and wonder if all that art, rather than the cheery bumper sticker ART SAVES LIVES! art didn’t actually kill her.

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