I meet folks all the time who have jobs, careers, full employment, financial security, the whole economic enchilada \u2026. but who don\u2019t really like what they do. My parents called that \u2018Reality\u2019. Lucky for one of their rebellious kids, at least. I had a buddy\u2019s kid tell me recently \u2013 at age 12 \u2013 he wanted to be an osteopathic surgeon. ARE YOU KIDDING ME??? At age 12 I wanted to be a cowboy.<\/p>\n
I mean, where\u2019s the romance here? The adolescent will toward some kind of schoolkid passion? Some ideal of a calling untethered to adult notions of a proper career. Where\u2019s the deep seated urge to \u2026 I don\u2019t know, just do something fun, something for the helluvit? Mom, Dad, I got an announcement to make. I\u2019ve been thinking pretty hard lately about what I want to do with my life. I\u2019ve been turning it over and over in my head, you know, between updating Facebook and worrying about my acne, and I\u2019ve finally come to a decision. Osteopathic Surgeon. Whaddaya think?<\/p>\n
My folks might\u2019ve been relieved I no longer aspired to Cattle Punching, but somehow I suspect they would\u2019ve rolled their eyes and said, wait a few years, why don\u2019tcha? You\u2019ll find something you love. Course, trouble was, I did. I went through a number of career explorations. Restauranteur. Metro bus driver. Teacher. Substitute teacher. Dog pound kennel worker. Hospital orderly. Furniture stripper. School bus driver. Stained glass artist.<\/p>\n
Oops. Stop the film. Rewind to stained glass artist. This is a career? This is what you went to college for? This is what you want to do? And expect to make a living??? Have you considered, oh, osteopathic surgery maybe. Or dentistry?<\/p>\n
You could\u2019ve knocked me over with a feather too. Sometimes life\u2019s detours become an interstate. Occasionally passion will override the sensible and the safe and the sane. I know my friends who have impressionable children don\u2019t want the kids near me for fear of contact contamination, but \u2026 I know this: life is way more fun, way more meaningful, way more worth living —- if you pick the life you love, the wife you love, the job you love, than if you choose the route that\u2019s most lucrative.<\/p>\n
Although \u2026. I think those routes ARE the most lucrative — even if they don\u2019t make much money. My folks might not agree, but at least they can rest easy knowing I didn\u2019t become a cowboy. At least not a real one.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
I meet folks all the time who have jobs, careers, full employment, financial security, the whole economic enchilada \u2026. but who don\u2019t really like what they do. My parents called that \u2018Reality\u2019. Lucky for one of their rebellious kids, at least. I had a buddy\u2019s kid tell me recently \u2013 at age 12 \u2013 he […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[6],"tags":[3415,7456,7455],"class_list":["post-19434","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-rantings-and-ravings","tag-career-choices","tag-job-search","tag-what-do-you-want-to-be-when-you-grow-up"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.skeeterdaddle.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19434","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.skeeterdaddle.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.skeeterdaddle.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.skeeterdaddle.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.skeeterdaddle.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=19434"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.skeeterdaddle.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19434\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19435,"href":"https:\/\/www.skeeterdaddle.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19434\/revisions\/19435"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.skeeterdaddle.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=19434"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.skeeterdaddle.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=19434"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.skeeterdaddle.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=19434"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}